Anger
enters when real Contentment goes away...
SituationWhen we don't get what we want or others won't do what we expect them to do, we become disappointed and we are afraid that…
When contentment is not present
we've developed some acquired behaviours
for achieving it… one of these is anger.
It is not however the natural state of
a soul because no one really wants to be angry
and this is why afterwards we regret
it but ,we just unconsciously let ourselves go down the easy way; the easy
way of external projection of everything that is missing
inside… thus we miss happiness…
So, trying to do away with anger
without actually knowing the real reason for it doesn't work.
}Have you ever heard anyone saying:
"Well I'm going on holiday for 2 weeks… I'm really looking forward to
quarrelling with everyone…(?) "
Soulution
The moment we feel the attraction
of anger for someone or something, it is the right
moment (?) for our spiritual evolution ,
the gateway to a new and beautiful part of our self is being unlocked
!
It's the time to draw
new curves into my character...
..let me check the real reason for my anger…the truth always
lies deeper than the superficial triggers…
true reasons are always less obvious than the many forms of the external
triggering situations or people... thus I get deceived.
...yes , it’s
true they were late again but why do I hold on to my expectations… yes
,it is yet another occasion where they haven’t shown respect for my time
but why do I keep demanding that other people understand what "time
management is"… yes, again I'm angry with myself but maybe I'm too
demanding by expecting to control my anger from the very first anger
"management" workshop…!
